Mike Bamiloye, the head of Mount Zion Faith Ministries, revealed on Monday that many women, even at the age of 28, are not ready to be brides, as captioned by Entrepreneurng report.
So many at this age want to marry but are not ready to pay the price of setting up a good home for themselves.
On his Instagram page, the film director and producer made this disclosure, noting that many women these days “prepare more for the wedding day, than for the marriage life.
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Many people aren’t getting ready for marriage sufficiently. Many people have a limited understanding of marriage. There is no in-depth research on what marriage entails.
He said, “Some females are too impatient and unprepared to settle down and study the fundamentals of married life.
Many women, even those who are 28 years old, are unfit to be brides. Many of the women who are ready to get married, he continued, do not know how to cook but are accustomed to eating quick food at restaurants, ice cream, and boiling eggs for noodles.
They aren’t competent cooks. They are accustomed to eating quick food at restaurants, ice cream, (noodles) and spaghetti, as well as boiled eggs and Titus, and they spend six months researching wedding dresses and bridal accessories. And they intend to wed. He observed that if love is blind during courtship, marriage will cause the blind to become visible.
“Right now, our young sisters are learning how to divorce their husbands. When things don’t go as planned, many of them rush in and are trained on how to flee as quickly as possible.
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But he made it clear that he opposed abusing women, declaring, “I am against abuse to women. I oppose the maltreatment of wives. A man who beats or torments his wife is an animal and should not be allowed to live among people.
However, marriage is beautiful but comes along with so many ugly challenges in life. When not adequately prepared for it end up in divorce.
In conclusion, women are used to preparing for marriage either through books or through adequate mentoring from great people who have made success in their marriages rather than giving up and saying it not working. Everyone wants to have a happy home but not everyone can fully pay the price of success.
